My name is Ruth O. I am presently serving in Ogun state and have been dating a guy for the past one year. He has a good job, a car and doing very well. He promised to marry me when I finish from the university. A few days ago when I brought up the issue of marriage.
He said I should get a job first. I don't get. Does he mean we wouldn't get married if I don't get a job? Please TSB share this mail with your readers. Thanks.
So what would you say to this?
She should get a job
ReplyDeleteThe guy has a point you know, he doesn't want responsiblities
ReplyDeletelmao!
ReplyDeleteNo comment
ReplyDeleteGo and get a job my friend and get married °˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚
ReplyDeleteSeriously??
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't want you just trying to push you away, see the hand writings on the wall
ReplyDeleteok
ReplyDeleteGuys need ladies who has something doing to ease the financial burden on them. So try to get a job or start a business.
ReplyDeletedon't depend on your partner/spouse for a living. what if they die or jilt you? get something doing. After all, the bible tells us that God blesses the WORKS of our HANDS!
ReplyDeletewell said, sarah. that's the way it should be and this makes your spouse respect you too
ReplyDeleteyou go get a job, jare. so he doesn't see you as a gold digger
ReplyDeletehe wants you to be independent
ReplyDeletego get a job and stop seeking an easy route
ReplyDeleteget a job and concentrate on that. when he sees you are serious, things will fall in place
ReplyDeleteSorry I don't get this. Why should him telling you to get a job first be a problem. SISTER get a job.
ReplyDeletewhat if at the end of the day I become independent meet more successful and independent men let's say a divorcee for instance who is a single father and has 2 beautiful kids but is very rich with properties in dubai and milan and is willing to get me a job once I accept his proposal I think I should just leave this guy alone right?
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